Pursue clarity in dating

Questions to ask:

What have you learned about each other lately — stories, habits, character traits?
How have you each grown in your relationship with Jesus since you started dating?
Are you both committed to abstaining from any form of sexual immorality?
What flags, if any, have others raised about your relationship?
What obstacles are keeping the two of you from getting married?
Are you each being driven by your own desires, or by God’s desires for you?
In what ways is your relationship different from non-Christian relationships?