Questions to ask:

  • What have you learned about each other lately — stories, habits, character traits?
  • How have you each grown in your relationship with Jesus since you started dating?
  • Are you both committed to abstaining from any form of sexual immorality?
  • What flags, if any, have others raised about your relationship?
  • What obstacles are keeping the two of you from getting married?
  • Are you each being driven by your own desires, or by God’s desires for you?
  • In what ways is your relationship different from non-Christian relationships?

Furhter: Not Yet Married by Marshall Segal and The Great Prize in Christian Dating by Marshall Segal